The art of allowance

What if you do not need to work harder, but rather increase your ability to receive?

We are all familiar with the concept of allowance in childhood (AKA pocket money). What a gift that is, already being cared for and on top of that getting money purely for existing! I hope you are not only familiar with the concept, but have experienced it yourself as well.

It is interesting to take a closer look at the meaning of a word. The English dictionary describes 'allowance' as follows:

allowance (AMOUNT GIVEN)

money that you are given regularly, especially to pay for a particular thing

Spiritually, this works the same way. So much is given to us all. The only limitation on how much is given to you lies in your capacity to allow it. So stop wasting time by working harder and practice your ability to receive and allow.

You might think 'That's absurd, of course I am not blocking my desires, I truly want to receive everything I desire.'

Maybe not consciously, but certain life experiences have shaped your beliefs about receiving and they are blocking the things you want.

Find out what is blocking you

Somewhere along the way, you may have picked up that you have to earn or even suffer in order to receive. You might believe you are unworhty of receiving or connected receiving with being dependent or owing someone something, so you are better off doing it all yourself. You may have been disappointed so many times by not getting what you wanted that you hold grudges and protect yourself by being pessimistic and closed off. You may only feel alive when life is hard and therefore you unconsciously complicate and sabotage your own life. Or you just never thought about it and follow the masses and how they live their lives.

Manifestation is not about making mood boards, visualisation techniques and drinking cacao while pulling tarot cards. It is about doing the inner work and letting go of the internal junk you have accumulated during your life.

The Law of Attraction is always at work, you see, and like any other law, it is neutral and does not discriminate. It makes no distinction between "good" people with good intentions or "bad" people with bad ones - it attracts what is sent out. Your subconscious has holds far more power than the conscious, so it is evident that you make the unconscious, conscious.

What you can do

Being in a state of allowing is very natural for all of us, so not being able to allow means that something is hindering this natural tendency. I invite you to reflect on the themes of receiving versus doing and your relationship with allowing. You can use the examples of potential blockages. Also think about your relationship with your feminine and masculine energy. Which comes most naturally to you, the feminine, receptive side or the masculine, action-oriented side? Are there certain situations where this shifts?

There is a subtle yet important balance between taking action and surrendering. A dance between yourself and infinite intelligence. Observe whether you are often the one who takes the lead or the one who follows - literally and figuratively.

Dancing is not just about movement, timing is just as important. Knowing your timing is the key to a harmonious dance with life. Being able to discern when it is time to act makes all the difference. Knowing your human design (strategy &) authority is the greatest gift on this earthly plane that helps us navigate this shit show (just kidding, I love life). Your authority reveals the way you make decisions, you can check yours here.

Want help figuring out what is blocking your ability to receive and how you are designed to navigate this life? Book a 1:1 session with me. Send me a message if you want to know how to use your authority to best make the decision to work with me (or not).

Lastly, in order to receive the things we want, we need to know where our focus lies. I made a free mini guide + audio transmission on focus and energy as a currency. The guide contains intentional exercises you can experiment with and questions to contemplate on. You can get your free download here and listen to the audio transmission here.

Dance with life and it will dance with you.

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